Are You Born a Medium, or Can Anyone Connect?
- Philip Dykes
- Jun 12
- 3 min read
It's arguably the most frequently asked question in the world of mediumship, and for good reason. It taps into our curiosity about the unseen, our desire for connection beyond the physical, and the lingering hope we too possess the capacity to bridge the two worlds.
For a long time, mediumship was shrouded in mystery, often perceived as an exclusive gift.
Think of the Victorian seances, their abilities seemed out of this world, a birthright rather than a developed skill. This perception has led many to dismiss their own ability, believing they weren't chosen.
But here's the truth:
While some individuals may indeed enter this life with a naturally more open and sensitive ability, the resounding answer from experienced mediums, teachers, and centuries of spiritual development is No, you don't have to be born a full blown medium to develop your abilities.
Mediumship is an ability, Not a Gift.
Think of it like music or art. Some people are born with an incredible talent for playing the piano or painting masterpieces. They might pick up an instrument and intuitively understand harmony, or wield a brush with natural grace. But does that mean only these "gifted" individuals can learn to play music or create art? Absolutely not!
With dedication, practice, guidance, and the right instruction, countless individuals learn to play instruments beautifully, sing harmoniously, and express themselves artistically.
Mediumship operates on a similar principle. It involves:
Sensitivity: Learning to recognise and attune to subtle feelings called emanations from your own soul or the Spirit world.
Discernment: Differentiating between your own thoughts, emotions, physical senses to a inner world of genuine spiritual connection.
Focus & Intention: Directing your awareness to spiritual impressions.
Interpretation: Translating feelings, images and thoughts into understandable language through our soul.
Delivery: Confidently, accurately, logically and rationally conveying the evidence and messages received.
These are all skills that can be taught, practiced, and refined over time.
Signs You Might Be Ready to Develop:
You don't need to be seeing full apparitions to begin. Often, the early signs are subtle:
Strong Intuition: You just "know" things without logical explanation.
Empathy: You deeply feel the emotions of others, living and passed.
Vivid Dreams: Messages or visitations might occur during your sleep.
Sensing Presences: Feeling like you're not alone in a room, even when physically you are.
Unusual Synchronicities: Meaningful coincidences that seem to defy chance.
A Deep Fascination with the Spiritual: An undeniable pull towards understanding life beyond the material.
If any of this resonates, it's not a random occurrence. It's often your own spirit, and perhaps those in the Spirit world, nudging you towards a deeper awareness of your capabilities.
The Path of Development:
Developing mediumship is a sacred journey of self discovery, discipline and profound connection. It typically involves:
Meditation: To quiet the mind and become receptive and aware.
Sitting in the Power: Dedicated practice sessions (often in a development circle) to attune to Spirit.
Guidance, Classes, Courses: Working with experienced mentors and tutors who can provide safe, structured, and ethical training.
Patience and Persistence: Mediumship unfolds at its own pace; consistency is key.
So, are you born a medium, or an anyone connect? the answer is a resounding YES, the potential is within you.
It's not about being born special, it's about being willing to learn, to listen, and to courageously step onto a path that can profoundly enrich your life and the lives of countless others. The journey of unlocking you're ability is the willingness to explore the extraordinary capabilities within.
Enjoy Your Spiritual Journey of Development
Philip Dykes & Kerry McLeod
International Mediums & Tutors, Master Mentors & Coaches | Philip Dykes & Kerry McLeod
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